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Basic facts - I am 27 year
old no kids of my own. Met the man of my dreams who has 3 children 15, 7
and 6 - all boys! He was separated at the time and now is going through
the final throws of divorce. She lives in a mortgage free house, her car
is paid for, she gets maintenance for the three children even though the
15 year old lives permanently with us.
We see the two younger kids
twice a week plus alternate weekends. She does not work and lives in her
house (paid for by my partner) with her loser benefit fraudster boyfriend.
I work fulltime and live by the timetable she dictates.
I have met her once, she was
pleasant enough - how wrong was I! However since time has passed she has
been calling me ugly, racist jibes (I am Indian) and she has taught the
children to call me names (you can guess what) - oh by the way her
boyfriend is darker than me.
She said that she will go
for my money and keeps on wanting more money. The woman has never worked a
day in her life. She wants my partners business to put in a trust fund for
her boys, therefore any children I might have with my partner will be
entitled to nothing. She wants more maintenance and her behaviour
continues to be outlandish, case example when my partner cancelled her car
insurance which he was paying for by direct debit she said that she will
not divorce him and stop access to the two smaller children (it was less
than £50.00). As the divorce is not finalized she continues to make
outrageous demands and my partner gives in to her most times as he does
not want to jeopardize the access he has.
I can't stand this woman and
what she represents, she is a sly, conniving, lazy bitch whose only
achievement in life was to lay down and spread her legs. She hides
behind her children, pretending to be a concerned mother etc.. yet she is
not interested in her children's welfare - all her children have no value
for education, they have no respect for anyone and are generally badly
behaved. Yet she is a so called full time mum remember only looking after
2 of her 3 children.
She is putting a lot of
pressure on our relationship and I guess that is her intent. She pretends
to be very happy in her current relationship but pulls rank on me with
regards to my partner i.e well you now what X is like, me and him did this
blah blah...